how to deal with fasle allegations? when u know u r right and have doen nothing wrong,yet u r labelled as the one responsible for all the troubles. u have not brached any body's trust yet u r labelled trust breacher.u havent doen anything to compromise family's honour ,yet u r labelled as a balck sheep of the family,despite the fact the actual balck sheep roams with head held high.
starnge r the ways of lord-truth speakers r labelled as liers and habitual liers r called virtueous and truth holder.
Truth need not be proved yet what to do when u dont have any proff of ur honesty and rightness.
when unable to take insult u harp back then u r called immoral,yet for years when u have been oppressed then no body took notice of ur plight.
for other's happiness u gave away all material desires and yet called greedy. for familyhonour u sacrified ur life's only happiness yet u r called selfish and lacking family values.u agve ur life and whispered it and u r called loser and a failure who couldnot do anything.
what to do admist such situations.u decide to fight back but with whom as that's the only support u have. in such a situation what is the worth of ur life.

self dignity is the most imp thing for an individual.if u dont respect urself then no body will respect ur feelings and rights. its not necessary that those who are elder to u are always right and you have to always follow their orders at the cost of your life's happiness. learn to live life for yoursel and aftera time evrybody has to becoem answerable to self as to what u have doen for urself. coz while doing and living for others u should not forget to live for yourself.then in the end respect of woman is most important for herself.

where to go-when u r abandoned by all. when u are cheated and left alone to fend for yourself. when u r insulted for doing the bidding of others.when u kill ur desires for soembody's happiness and still are made to suffer the consequences for rest of your life.it hurts and you cant even complain. coz if u complain u r hurt again.

to get a loyal,trustworthy servant who can also do cleaning and washing is nothing but a miracle.
ours was caught stealing .till then we were bearing with his no -serious attitude to work.but when he was caught redhanded then we were leeft with no option except to fire him.easier said then done.now getting a temp is proving a hassel.it sbeen 2 weeks of chaos and the whole day goes in cleaning the house .then its time for kicten utensisls.suddenly the females members of the house have no life .i even dream of washing utensisls all day long.then its holy week of navratras ,hindu festival of nine days rituals that also takes its own toll.after weeks of battering we have managed a part time lad who helps us in little work but can do majority of the work.
hope god almighty sees our plight and bless us with a fiathful.homely servant who also know how to work.till then its insha-allaha.

what if the,last hope dies down
what if the,cherished dream crashes out,
What if the,resuce u hoped for dosent come around
what ifthe,troubles uwished to ease pile abound,
what if for whom u made sacrifices pulls u down
what if u turn to god for help and he too desert u
chill running down your spine.

Its said one msut keep hope admist despair and keep on trying hard till your last breath.but what about those u toiled hard all their lives for others are dumped alone in hour of crisis ,to fend for themselves.And are then ridiculed for failing in life despite the fact that you were forced to fail so that others could live.one must remain hopeful as u never know help might be lying around the corner.What if those u want to help u want to do it to meet their selfish interests.Whom shall u trust when u made the last sacrifice was asked from you in name of honour and almighty.If some come in our life to go then why they come at all -to inflict upon us pain and sorrow.is this justice that a person is asked a sacrifice and when he makes that he is ridiculed and insulted.a line has to be drawn.and that's why its important to say no as people might take ur life for granted and play with your emotions.